Finding your fire
A 4-week experience for couples who feel more like roommates than lovers
You love each other.
You’ve built a life together.
You function well as a team.
But somewhere along the way… the spark faded.
Conversations became logistics.
Touch became routine—or disappeared altogether.
And the part of your marriage that used to feel exciting, playful, and deeply connecting?
Now it feels distant… or like pressure.
Finding Your Fire is designed for couples who don’t want to settle for a “fine” sex life.
Who miss each other.
Who want more—but don’t know how to get there from here.
Because the truth is:
You are not the same people you were when you got married.
Your bodies have changed.
Your stress levels have changed.
Your desires, turn-ons, boundaries, and experiences have all evolved.
And no one ever taught you how to rediscover each other after all of that.
Inside this 4-week course, you’ll learn how to:
Reconnect emotionally so intimacy doesn’t feel forced
Understand how your desire has changed (instead of feeling broken)
Communicate about intimacy without awkwardness, pressure, or shutdown
Explore what actually feels good now—not what used to
Rebuild sexual connection in a way that feels safe, mutual, and exciting
Each week includes a guided video and intentional steps to help you move from disconnection… back to desire.
This isn’t about going back to who you were.
It’s about discovering who you are now—
and building a sex life that fits this version of your marriage.
Because passion isn’t something you either have or don’t.
It’s something you learn how to create—together.
You don’t have to keep missing each other like this.
The connection you’re craving? It’s still possible.
You just need a path back to it.
Add Finding Your Fire to your cart and take the first step today.
Have you lost yoru sexual fire?
Are you ready to break out of the roommate stage of marriage and find that sexual fire you once had?
What if you are pretty sure sexual fire is a myth, because you’ve never felt it, but are curious if you could experience it for yourself for the first time?
Finding Your Fire will take you and your spouse on a month long journey of discovering who you are in bed. You aren’t the same person who said “I do” however many moons ago. Humans grow and change and evolve and *that’s good.*
But sometimes we forget that for as much as we have changed, so have they. We get frustrated when our old ways of relating, of touching, no longer elicit sighs of arousal, only rolled eyes and asking “What do you want for dinner tomorrow?”
Time to light the match
We can feel lost and a bit lonely when we start to realize that our go-to seductions and ways to connect no longer work, but we don’t know how to find our way back together with this person that feels a little like a stranger sometimes next to us in bed.
Finding Your Fire gives you practical tools as well as spicy suggestions for ways to improve your intimacy in and out of the bedroom. You’ll learn new methods of communication, and you’ll spend time exploring the bodies that have changed over the years, to discover what still works, and what new and thrilling things you can add to make your intimate lives greater than they’ve ever been.
Every marriage goes through seasons - and every marriage eventually hits a season where the fire has dimmed to embers. While it might be a sort of normal, that doesn’t mean you have to live there forever. It’s time to fan that flame and watch it grow!
Course overview
Improving your communication improves your sexual intimacy - get valuable tools to improve communication.
Create rituals to sustain your marriage through hard seasons for years to come.
Learn to turn your fantasies into realities through intimate exploration.
Get access to the best-selling 31 Days of Intimacy for free!
Course includes over 60 minutes of instruction with assignments for each module to work on throughout each week with your spouse.