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When to bring up 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 to your spouse

Is this verse the “One Verse to Rule them All”?

How to have a conversation if you are feeling deprived

Purity culture focused on a list of rules. Those rules never dealt with the heart of the person. The rules were enforced with shame. If you didn’t follow the rules, either you were going to Hell, or you were condemning someone else to Hell.

I believe when we truly believe in the salvation offered to us through Jesus, we will want to do what He calls us to do, because we trust that His plans are higher than our own selfish desires.

And with that, we need to give up the lists of rules. We need to listen to the Holy Spirit, and figure out His best plan for our lives. Throw out the bra strap scandals, and the chewed up gum analogies. Embrace the freedom we are given through grace, while balancing the call on our lives to holiness.

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What if I want to know how far I can go with the person I am dating before it becomes sin?

Yes. Toys predate the written Bible. There is archaeological evidence of such. If God cared that much about people finding things to insert, He had every opportunity to do so when writing the Bible.

This does not mean I’m advocating you go off and use a whole toy store by yourself (seriously, why do people think that’s what I’m saying here?). It means if you and your spouse do not have a personal conviction against using toys in your marriage, then enjoy that freedom! You can join my Patreon where I teach you how to use all kinds of toys, or you can search for toys to buy from either my Amazon Storefront, or the Christian owned website, Romantic Blessings!